Understanding Separate Realities Helps Relationships | Rohini Ross
Understanding Separate Realities Helps Relationships

Understanding Separate Realities Helps Relationships

Even though Angus isn’t “quirk” ready I share a quirk of his I have noticed since being in isolation that I didn’t notice before. We also share a funny experience that involves Angus and a Whole Foods security guard as a way to illustrate how we live in our own subjective reality and how real that can look at times. Seeing this is so helpful to relationships. It helps us to take our experience more lightly as well as our partners. We see that it isn’t about blame and who is right and who is wrong. We are all doing the best we can based on our understanding.


Angus & Rohini Ross are “the Rewilders.” They love working with couples and helping them to reduce conflict and discord in their relationships by pointing them to their innate wisdom and understanding. They work with couples who are struggling and couples who would like to deepen the love and intimacy they already have. They co-facilitate individualized couples intensives that rewild relationships back to their natural state of love. Rohini is the author of Marriage (The Soul-Centered Series Book 1), and they are co-founders of The Soul-Centered Series: Psychology, Spirituality and the Teachings of Sydney Banks. You can also subscribe to Rohini’s weekly blog that includes their weekly Vlog on her website, rohiniross.com.


  • Charlene

    18.04.2020 at 19:34 Reply

    So helpful Rohini, I love how honest you both are and how you can listen to each other. The depth of your understanding of the fact that you both have separate realities is clear, and you also have the clarity to laugh when one of you states that they are uncomfortable or offended. I read your letter every week and I always find it so settling. To read your words always puts me in touch with my own true feelings and I just trust the stillness and flow of things more. Sincere thanks for your commitment to helping us (though indirectly) I’m sure I’m a kinder person because of your writing. Quietly and gently directing me so that I know fully, what helps and hinders in my relationship with my partner. When I recognise my quirks and his quirks, I can be equally as soft and honour them for how they can highlight how we are different and also the same.

    • Rohini

      05.05.2020 at 18:14 Reply

      Hi Charlene,

      Thanks so much for writing! So wonderful to hear what you are seeing and how you have been impacted. Love, Rohini

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