What is the weirdest thing your partner has sent you to the store for?
Angus is a shopping ninja unless I slow him down with my unusual requests. My disruption of his shopping flow helps him to see he is more sped up than he realized.
We all have our blind spots. The areas where it is invisible to us that we are caught up in thought. The good news is we don’t have to work on ourselves or try and fix them.
Our true nature doesn’t have blind spots. So rather than trying to wake up faster, improve ourselves, or try to do the impossible of fixing the things we don’t see, we can simply look in the direction of who we are.
We can remember who we are and naturally see who we are not. We are not our blind spots. We are not our psychology. We are not our thoughts. We are not our feelings. Seeing we can have our moment to moment experience without identifying with it is freeing. It makes life more graceful in every area, including going shopping with a list of my special requests.
Angus & Rohini Ross are “the Rewilders”. They love working with couples and helping them to reduce conflict and discord in their relationships by opening them up to their innate vitality and resilience. They work with couples who are struggling and couples who would like to deepen the love and intimacy they already have. They co-facilitate individualized couples intensives that rewild relationships back to their natural state of love. Rohini is the author of Marriage (The Soul-Centered Series Book 1), and they are co-founders of The Soul-Centered Series: Psychology, Spirituality and the Teachings of Sydney Banks. You can also subscribe to Rohini’s weekly blog that includes their weekly Vlog on her website, rohiniross.com.