Reflections on Love and Unity on Presidents’ Day in the U.S.
There is only one religion, the religion of love.
There is only one language, the language of the heart.
There is only one race, the human race
~ Sai Baba
Today is President’s Day in the United States. It started out as a holiday commemorating George Washington’s birthday on February 22nd, and was later moved to the third Monday in February to celebrate all presidents past and present. I choose this day to speak of love and unity.
There is tremendous division, anger, and upset over the current state of American politics both nationally and internationally. I have my Canadian and European friends asking me in concerned tones how things are in the U.S.? I was recently at a training and the speaker was referring to the source of war and conflict and a participant called out, “Donald Trump”. I thought of how it would feel to be in that room, in the minority, as a supporter of President Trump. I felt the ill will and was moved by how the speaker Eirik Grunde Olsen responded.
He said, “Donald Trump is me. I am the same as Donald Trump. Donald Trump has innate wellbeing. There is no difference between Donald Trump and me. We are all the same.”
With all of the polarizing views related to the 45th President of the United States, his cabinet members, and his advisors, it is easy to get caught up in fear and anger — me too! However, notwithstanding my humanness, it is my intention to bring more love onto the planet and not less. I know those very normal emotions will not serve me if I react to them and act from them.
The truth is, we are all the same no matter what our political affiliation. As the quote above states, there is only one race, the human race. One of the metaphors I have heard used by George Pransky is about mushroom fields. He explains how on the surface of the ground we see individual mushrooms, but the majority of the mushroom exists underground as one organism. Isn’t this true for us?
We are each magnificent and unique in our human expression, and we are all one in our formless, true nature. We are connected at the source. Beyond the diversity of this world is the oneness of our loving, formless essence.
From the understanding of love, we are all doing the best we can. We are all waking up to our true nature. I know I slip into the arrogance of thinking “what is” should look different, and then I remember everything is a call to love. I see the current political climate as the by-product of our collective consciousness and not the source of the problem. The real way forward comes from each of us experiencing shifts in our own consciousness that have us awaken more fully to our loving nature. We will then, in turn, be kinder with each other individually and collectively.
I am not advocating for passivity. I am encouraging all of us to stand forward even more fully for what we believe with the intention of being for love and not against the learning process. Being human is not a competitive sport. It seems to me that life is about waking up to our spiritual nature. This is an individual process that is enhanced by coming together and looking in that direction with others in whatever form that takes: organized religion, spirituality, ordinary living.
Looking in the direction of love as the true identity of who we all are can’t help but allow us to see more fully the loving essence in all people. This is our common ground. Acts of evil, large and small, are the result of suffering and misunderstanding on the part of the perpetrator. They are disconnected from knowing who they are and driven by fear and distress. There is nothing outside of love, everything comes from the oneness and the divinity of who we are. Our task is to see that and act from that place inside of ourselves. As we change, so will the world.
One of the ways I am looking in the direction of love, is by participating in the upcoming One Solution Conference in Cape Town, in March. I attended the first One Solution Conference last year in Oslo, in person. I will be attending this one via Livestream. This conference focuses on how a shift in consciousness is the one solution to all problems from the individual level to the global level. Having an understanding of how our spirituality and our humanity intersect and interplay points us in the direction of that solution.
As Eirik, one of the co-founders of the One Solution global movement, said at the training, “We think we see the world, but we are filling in the blanks. We don’t see the world, we see our thinking.” When our thinking changes through a shift in consciousness, everything changes. That is what gives me hope, knowing that we are all naturally called forward toward and have the infinite capacity for growth in consciousness. We are all waking up.
Rohini Ross is a psychotherapist, a leadership consultant, and an executive coach. Rohini facilitates personalized three-day retreats to help individuals, couples, and professionals connect more fully with their true nature and experience greater levels of wellbeing, resiliency, and success. You can find out more about Rohini’s work on her website, rohiniross.com.

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When you no longer give authority to the fear-based thoughts in your consciousness, all you are left with is happiness. Through the teachings of Sydney Banks, you can see how your psychological functioning works, which makes you less compelled to follow those thoughts that do not serve you. Becoming more aware of the wholeness and integration of both your human and spiritual natures helps to ground you in the unchanging essence of who you are, and ride out the ups and downs of your emotional experience more gracefully. Accepting the normalcy of your humanness will naturally reduce your anxiety and fear and enhance your joy and happiness in each moment. By placing less pressure on yourself to feel a certain way or be hung up on self-improvement, you may find that low moods do not derail or debilitate you; instead, you will become much more attuned to your innate wellbeing and peace of mind and experience more happiness as a result.
Greater psychological freedom is the gift that keeps on giving. How grateful would you feel if you no longer had to listen to your negative, self-punishing and painful inner narrative, day in and day out? Understanding the role of thought and recognizing how it creates your feelings of insecurity and self-doubt is truly liberating! You will be better able to hear and heed your inner wisdom and become less driven by the noisy thoughts of fear and constriction. As an ongoing practice, this allows you to more fully experience your resilience and reach a greater sense of clarity about how you want to move forward in your life. As a result, you can live in a way that feels authentic and true in every area, including your career, family, home, creative expression, play, relationships and overall well-being.
Your ability to enjoy life comes from being present in the moment rather than caught up in habitual, negative thoughts that take you out of the Now. Sydney Banks’ wisdom supports you in becoming aware of how you get seduced by your limited personal thinking and thus, create a painful reality of misunderstanding, fear and restriction. When you recognize how and why this happens, you can step free of the pattern. This understanding assists you to dismiss unhelpful thoughts and not take them seriously. Unlike traditional self-help or therapy, experiencing more psychological freedom and enjoyment does not rely on techniques. There are no magic bullets on the path of well-being. All you need to do is follow an internal compass that points to the truth of who you really are—beyond transient thoughts to your unchanging, formless essence.
In our culture, success is often associated with hard work and narrowly defined as material gain. However, authentic success, as shared by Sydney Banks, includes such intangibles as happiness, well-being, love, joy, compassion, and peace of mind that are innate in each one of us, along with outward goals and achievements. It honors the whole person in all walks of life, whether you are a professional, leader, executive, solopreneur, employee, mother, teacher or student. From this knowing and experience, you can access the infinite wellspring of love that is your essence, then share your gifts with the world from a place of fulfillment and meaning, through a profound understanding of the interaction between your psychological and spiritual natures. While conventional success can deplete you, authentic success only fills you up.
Are you self-critical, hard on yourself, and constantly trying to “fix” whatever you think is wrong with you? Perhaps you have tried all kinds of different personal growth techniques and spiritual practices in the hope of solving all your problems. This cycle can be exhausting and never-ending, because there will always be something to improve about yourself, from that mindset. Sydney Banks’ teachings can help you to see how your humanness is normal and not something that needs fixing: as a spiritual person, you don’t need to change or eradicate your humanness! Seeing yourself as normal allows you to love and accept yourself exactly as you are—warts and all. Adopting this perspective naturally brings out the best in you and helps to find peace with your personality. Self-love and self-acceptance is your natural state, and any disconnection from your true nature is only temporary. What a relief!
One of the first areas people often experience profound transformation from the teachings of Sydney Banks is in their relationships, both personal and professional. While it often seems like another person’s irritation, anger, indifference, insensitivity, rudeness, etc., directly affects your experience, in reality your disturbance is a product of your own individual thinking. By making someone else responsible for how you feel, that person automatically becomes the cause of your suffering. Once you understand that you always have a place of well-being inside, independent of another’s behavior, it is easier to maintain equanimity through their changing moods and behaviors. Romantically, you may experience deeper love and intimacy with your partner, but the teachings benefit all relationships. This awareness supports more authentic connection and expression, while facilitating greater understanding, improved communication, reduced reactivity, more acceptance of self and others, and improved ability to work out differences and find common ground. Best of all, just one person shifting in a relationship is enough to transform it.
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Carrie Sisson
20.02.2017 at 11:30I was the one that called out “Trump” and I couldn’t agree with you more?? Well said?
Rohini
20.02.2017 at 11:56That’s so funny Carrie! You gave me something to reflect on and see more deeply for myself. Sending you love! <3
Carolyn E Barbera
20.02.2017 at 20:42I love this, Rohini. My facebook feed is a minefield and it’s really hard not to get wrapped up in the fear and feel so righteous about what’s happening. I honestly didn’t know how many people that I knew who were supporters of Trump- passionate ones at that! I don’t want to isolate any of them- many have been so good to us and are family/dear friends. It’s so confusing because the polarization between the right and left is so strong right now. Francesco read an article once about how Italy finally recovered from one of their worst leaders recently- they finally got neutral & stopped focusing personalities, but policies instead. I think, as you said, if we come from a place of love, we can be neutral & more effective at making the change we set out for. But the change has to first start in our hearts. Beautiful <3
Rohini
20.02.2017 at 20:55Dear Carolyn,
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment. I appreciate what you say about focusing on policies and not personalities. Sending you love, Rohini <3