An Idea Whose Time Has Come
“Love is the answer because, pure mind, divine mind is pure love. Divine consciousness is pure love. Divine thought is pure love.” — Sydney Banks
I am on my way back from Oslo, home of the Nobel Peace prize, and where the first One Solution Conference was held. I am deeply moved, filled and inspired as I return to LA. The premise of the conference — there is one solution to global challenges is a bold statement. It does, however, make sense within the context of there being one source to human suffering. As George Pransky stated at the conference, if there is one solution, there has to be one problem, and that problem is chronic human stress and distress resulting from a misunderstanding regarding where human experience comes from.
We are taught that our experience comes from outside of us. Therefore, we look first to outside causes and solutions to ameliorate our suffering. We believe if we can change and control circumstances then we can eliminate distress. This, however, is not where our experience comes from. Our internal experience comes from our own thinking. Consciousness brings our thoughts to life through our sensory system, and that is where our experience is created.
What this means is that our experience exists independent of outside circumstances. It is not a causal relationship. Thoughts producing feelings is the causal connection. One of the most moving examples of this for me is demonstrated by Viktor Frankl, renowned Austrian psychiatrist who survived the Auschwitz concentration camp. Even in the most harrowing of conditions Frankl was able to connect with his spiritual well being. He shares in his book, Man’s Search For Meaning:
“… for the first time in my life I saw the truth as it is set into song by so many poets, proclaimed as the final wisdom by so many thinkers. The truth — that love is the ultimate and the highest goal to which men can aspire. Then I grasped the meaning of the greatest secret that human poetry and human thought and belief have to impart: The salvation of man is through love and in love. I understood how a man who has nothing left in this world may still know bliss, be it only for a brief moment.”
This bliss comes from inside. It is our true nature. It is a state of mind that we all have access to when our personal thinking settles. No matter what our circumstances we can experience this, and, not only can we experience it independent of our conditions, the best solutions for addressing problems and solving challenges come from this state of mind.
This is the direction the One Solution conference asked us to look in. Rather than starting with fixing everything out there, start by connecting with your natural state of loving and address problems from this state of mind. That is the one solution. I have been teaching this to individuals, couples, families, and organizations. Now I see how it relates to global challenges as well.
There were inspiring case studies shared at the conference regarding how an inside-out approach based on the Three Principles teachings of Sydney Banks has been used and is being used to foster change in the world. There were examples of transformation in housing projects, with refugees in Gaza, with Nepalese relief workers, and with the Kenyan Police service.
Despite the varied circumstances and different challenges being addressed in the case studies, the one solution of pointing people in the direction of their innate well being was the foundation for change. Recognizing the infinite power of thought engenders resilience and allows people to stabilize and regain their bearings so they do not experience chronic stress and fear.
The natural state of every human is to have access to the infinite potential of thought. We are designed to have fresh, new thoughts that stabilizes us.When we see this is available to us and know thought is the source of our experience, we are less likely to fuel and get gripped by limiting thought patterns, and when we do, it is easier to take them less seriously and not hold them in place as long. This does not mean we escape suffering all together, but we don’t have to experience it in a chronic way. We can allow ourselves to be restored and stabilized by fresh thought this is self-correcting.
The “One Solution” is not an answer to every logistical problem that exists on the planet, but it shows us how to alleviate the chronic stress and distress that underlies global challenges. There will be acute stress and distress we experience at times, but chronic stress and distress can only be held in place by thought. Thought, however, is not only the source of our suffering, it is also the source of our healing. We all have the infinite potential to experience new thought, fresh thought, transcendental thought. We have the capacity to experience thought that is beyond the intellect and that wakes us up to the wisdom of the heart.
When our hearts are open it is impossible to create war. It is impossible not to share. It is impossible to kill. It is impossible to withhold. It is impossible to judge. All hostility disappears. All difference is accepted, and we are left with the oneness of our humanity. From the oneness it makes no more sense to hurt another than it does to hurt ourselves. It is common sense to find solutions when the veil of separation dissolves. When we see beyond the limitations of judgments and fear based notions, we are left with the commonality of our humanness and the simplicity of loving one another.

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When you no longer give authority to the fear-based thoughts in your consciousness, all you are left with is happiness. Through the teachings of Sydney Banks, you can see how your psychological functioning works, which makes you less compelled to follow those thoughts that do not serve you. Becoming more aware of the wholeness and integration of both your human and spiritual natures helps to ground you in the unchanging essence of who you are, and ride out the ups and downs of your emotional experience more gracefully. Accepting the normalcy of your humanness will naturally reduce your anxiety and fear and enhance your joy and happiness in each moment. By placing less pressure on yourself to feel a certain way or be hung up on self-improvement, you may find that low moods do not derail or debilitate you; instead, you will become much more attuned to your innate wellbeing and peace of mind and experience more happiness as a result.
Greater psychological freedom is the gift that keeps on giving. How grateful would you feel if you no longer had to listen to your negative, self-punishing and painful inner narrative, day in and day out? Understanding the role of thought and recognizing how it creates your feelings of insecurity and self-doubt is truly liberating! You will be better able to hear and heed your inner wisdom and become less driven by the noisy thoughts of fear and constriction. As an ongoing practice, this allows you to more fully experience your resilience and reach a greater sense of clarity about how you want to move forward in your life. As a result, you can live in a way that feels authentic and true in every area, including your career, family, home, creative expression, play, relationships and overall well-being.
Your ability to enjoy life comes from being present in the moment rather than caught up in habitual, negative thoughts that take you out of the Now. Sydney Banks’ wisdom supports you in becoming aware of how you get seduced by your limited personal thinking and thus, create a painful reality of misunderstanding, fear and restriction. When you recognize how and why this happens, you can step free of the pattern. This understanding assists you to dismiss unhelpful thoughts and not take them seriously. Unlike traditional self-help or therapy, experiencing more psychological freedom and enjoyment does not rely on techniques. There are no magic bullets on the path of well-being. All you need to do is follow an internal compass that points to the truth of who you really are—beyond transient thoughts to your unchanging, formless essence.
In our culture, success is often associated with hard work and narrowly defined as material gain. However, authentic success, as shared by Sydney Banks, includes such intangibles as happiness, well-being, love, joy, compassion, and peace of mind that are innate in each one of us, along with outward goals and achievements. It honors the whole person in all walks of life, whether you are a professional, leader, executive, solopreneur, employee, mother, teacher or student. From this knowing and experience, you can access the infinite wellspring of love that is your essence, then share your gifts with the world from a place of fulfillment and meaning, through a profound understanding of the interaction between your psychological and spiritual natures. While conventional success can deplete you, authentic success only fills you up.
Are you self-critical, hard on yourself, and constantly trying to “fix” whatever you think is wrong with you? Perhaps you have tried all kinds of different personal growth techniques and spiritual practices in the hope of solving all your problems. This cycle can be exhausting and never-ending, because there will always be something to improve about yourself, from that mindset. Sydney Banks’ teachings can help you to see how your humanness is normal and not something that needs fixing: as a spiritual person, you don’t need to change or eradicate your humanness! Seeing yourself as normal allows you to love and accept yourself exactly as you are—warts and all. Adopting this perspective naturally brings out the best in you and helps to find peace with your personality. Self-love and self-acceptance is your natural state, and any disconnection from your true nature is only temporary. What a relief!
One of the first areas people often experience profound transformation from the teachings of Sydney Banks is in their relationships, both personal and professional. While it often seems like another person’s irritation, anger, indifference, insensitivity, rudeness, etc., directly affects your experience, in reality your disturbance is a product of your own individual thinking. By making someone else responsible for how you feel, that person automatically becomes the cause of your suffering. Once you understand that you always have a place of well-being inside, independent of another’s behavior, it is easier to maintain equanimity through their changing moods and behaviors. Romantically, you may experience deeper love and intimacy with your partner, but the teachings benefit all relationships. This awareness supports more authentic connection and expression, while facilitating greater understanding, improved communication, reduced reactivity, more acceptance of self and others, and improved ability to work out differences and find common ground. Best of all, just one person shifting in a relationship is enough to transform it.
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