Understanding Is More Important Than Motivation When It Comes to Performance
It is surprising what isn’t needed for peak performance. Motivation, positive thinking, a good emotional state are not required to perform our best. This is clearly illustrated when the professional athletes I work with tell me they have played some of their best games when they were injured, sick, or in a bad mood. This also applies to performance in general. It is easy for us to get caught up investing energy into trying to manage and improve variables that have nothing to do with results.
Managing our thinking so we stay positive is often thought to be worthy of devoting energy to. It does create a more pleasant feeling state when we have positive thoughts, but negative thoughts passing through our awareness don’t have any power in and of themselves. It is only when we identify with them and focus on them that we bring these thoughts to life so they look real. However, trying to stop ourselves from having negative thoughts or trying to reduce them when they are present, only gives them more power. It strengthens their illusion and drains the precious resource of energy that we have available to us on a task that is as easy as trying to catch smoke with our hands. There is nothing there to hold on to, and we can waste a lot of energy trying.
Motivation is also a non-issue for performance. An athlete I was working with shared that she feels very unmotivated in the mornings. She wanted to find a way to feel better so she didn’t skip out of practice so often. I asked her if she ever had trouble motivating herself to step on the field when it was her turn to play. Her answer was an emphatic — never. This was a non-issue, and she was incredulous that I would even ask.
I then asked her wasn’t she sometimes tired before a game? Didn’t she sometimes not feel well before a game? Wasn’t she ever emotionally upset before a game? Didn’t she ever feel lazy before a game? Weren’t there times when she felt insecurity and self-doubt before a game? The answers were yes to all. So I asked her why these kind of thoughts and feelings would stop her from getting up in the morning, but not stop her from playing in the game?
She had never compared the two experiences previously. She thought they were completely unrelated. When she looked a little closer, she saw the circumstances were similar. The difference was, in the mornings her thoughts looked real to her. She believed she was lazy, unmotivated, tired, and insecure. She would worry about this and added fuel to her thinking through her concern. She didn’t see these were simply thoughts she was having. It looked to her like she was experiencing the truth.
Whereas, before a game, she might have these same thoughts, but she she didn’t have time to focus on them. She was able to dismiss them because she was focused on playing and didn’t give the thoughts or feelings the time of day. This allowed her to play well independent of her feeling and thinking state. She didn’t take her negative thoughts seriously before or during a game. She simply focused on playing. It didn’t require effort on her part to do this. She didn’t require a psychological process to dismiss the thoughts. It was simply common sense. As a result, she excelled in her performance in games.
From our conversation, she saw the same is true off the field as well as on the field. She recognized she has the same capacity to not focus on negative, insecure thoughts any day, not just on game days. Her understanding shifted so she could see that her experiences of laziness and lack of motivation come from thinking no matter what time of day she has them. She could see whatever her experience is, it always comes from thought.
Being able to recognize this and see that thought is fluid, transitory, and variable allowed her to relax. She recognized that her moment to moment thinking does not define who she is. This gave her a tremendous sense of freedom. She saw she didn’t have to wake up in a good mood, full of energy, or feeling positive, in order to do what she wanted. She could still accomplish her daily goals no matter how she feels when she wakes up. Nothing was wrong with her. Being able to see her experience as coming from thought allowed her to not respect her negative thinking so she didn’t feel so weighed down in the mornings.
This athlete did not use a technique to help her overcome her negative thoughts. A technique would have required effort and energy which was the last thing she had available to her based on her experience. Instead, she increased her level of understanding of her psychological functioning, and from the vantage point of this understanding, she was able to see the transitory, illusory nature of thought. This allowed her to relate to her thinking differently. She took it less seriously, and as a result her experience and behavior changed.
This is available to all of us. When we see clearly that our moment to moment experience comes from thought, whether we know we are thinking or not, we are better able to accept our experience, not get overwhelmed by it, or feel the need to change it. This frees up our energy to focus on the results we want to create.
Most of the obstacles we think we need to overcome to improve our performance don’t exist. The main obstacle we all come up against is wasting energy trying to manage or change our experience.
Peak performance is simply about getting the job done without worrying about the background chatter of your ego.

Christine Heath & Judy Sedgeman – Spirituality and Resilience
When you no longer give authority to the fear-based thoughts in your consciousness, all you are left with is happiness. Through the teachings of Sydney Banks, you can see how your psychological functioning works, which makes you less compelled to follow those thoughts that do not serve you. Becoming more aware of the wholeness and integration of both your human and spiritual natures helps to ground you in the unchanging essence of who you are, and ride out the ups and downs of your emotional experience more gracefully. Accepting the normalcy of your humanness will naturally reduce your anxiety and fear and enhance your joy and happiness in each moment. By placing less pressure on yourself to feel a certain way or be hung up on self-improvement, you may find that low moods do not derail or debilitate you; instead, you will become much more attuned to your innate wellbeing and peace of mind and experience more happiness as a result.
Greater psychological freedom is the gift that keeps on giving. How grateful would you feel if you no longer had to listen to your negative, self-punishing and painful inner narrative, day in and day out? Understanding the role of thought and recognizing how it creates your feelings of insecurity and self-doubt is truly liberating! You will be better able to hear and heed your inner wisdom and become less driven by the noisy thoughts of fear and constriction. As an ongoing practice, this allows you to more fully experience your resilience and reach a greater sense of clarity about how you want to move forward in your life. As a result, you can live in a way that feels authentic and true in every area, including your career, family, home, creative expression, play, relationships and overall well-being.
Your ability to enjoy life comes from being present in the moment rather than caught up in habitual, negative thoughts that take you out of the Now. Sydney Banks’ wisdom supports you in becoming aware of how you get seduced by your limited personal thinking and thus, create a painful reality of misunderstanding, fear and restriction. When you recognize how and why this happens, you can step free of the pattern. This understanding assists you to dismiss unhelpful thoughts and not take them seriously. Unlike traditional self-help or therapy, experiencing more psychological freedom and enjoyment does not rely on techniques. There are no magic bullets on the path of well-being. All you need to do is follow an internal compass that points to the truth of who you really are—beyond transient thoughts to your unchanging, formless essence.
In our culture, success is often associated with hard work and narrowly defined as material gain. However, authentic success, as shared by Sydney Banks, includes such intangibles as happiness, well-being, love, joy, compassion, and peace of mind that are innate in each one of us, along with outward goals and achievements. It honors the whole person in all walks of life, whether you are a professional, leader, executive, solopreneur, employee, mother, teacher or student. From this knowing and experience, you can access the infinite wellspring of love that is your essence, then share your gifts with the world from a place of fulfillment and meaning, through a profound understanding of the interaction between your psychological and spiritual natures. While conventional success can deplete you, authentic success only fills you up.
Are you self-critical, hard on yourself, and constantly trying to “fix” whatever you think is wrong with you? Perhaps you have tried all kinds of different personal growth techniques and spiritual practices in the hope of solving all your problems. This cycle can be exhausting and never-ending, because there will always be something to improve about yourself, from that mindset. Sydney Banks’ teachings can help you to see how your humanness is normal and not something that needs fixing: as a spiritual person, you don’t need to change or eradicate your humanness! Seeing yourself as normal allows you to love and accept yourself exactly as you are—warts and all. Adopting this perspective naturally brings out the best in you and helps to find peace with your personality. Self-love and self-acceptance is your natural state, and any disconnection from your true nature is only temporary. What a relief!
One of the first areas people often experience profound transformation from the teachings of Sydney Banks is in their relationships, both personal and professional. While it often seems like another person’s irritation, anger, indifference, insensitivity, rudeness, etc., directly affects your experience, in reality your disturbance is a product of your own individual thinking. By making someone else responsible for how you feel, that person automatically becomes the cause of your suffering. Once you understand that you always have a place of well-being inside, independent of another’s behavior, it is easier to maintain equanimity through their changing moods and behaviors. Romantically, you may experience deeper love and intimacy with your partner, but the teachings benefit all relationships. This awareness supports more authentic connection and expression, while facilitating greater understanding, improved communication, reduced reactivity, more acceptance of self and others, and improved ability to work out differences and find common ground. Best of all, just one person shifting in a relationship is enough to transform it.
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